It’s no secret that Mer and I live a frugal lifestyle. Actually, we come from a long line of frugal people and despite getting a little off-track in our 20s we tend to really live by the mantra that excess doesn’t bring happiness or joy to our lives. As a result, we really limit our spending and most months we can keep our expenses at around 1000$. Some months we go over but that’s not a big deal since we’re always prepared with a solid emergency fund for times when certain months are more expensive than others.
Recently, we watched an episode of Extreme Cheapskates. We were drawn to it because of our frugal tendencies but after watching I was left questioning if living frugally means the same thing as living cheaply. My resounding answer is no –being frugal is different than being cheap.
Here are a few reasons why!
5 Reasons being frugal is different than being cheap
Frugal living is about prioritizing and saving for a larger life goal.
We don’t live frugally to hoard away all our money and never spend it. Quite the opposite actually. We live frugally so we can save money and use it to fulfill our life goals.
Our first goal was getting out of debt, the second was saving up at least half the down payment for our first home and most recently we’re working towards saving up a fund to purchase a vacation home which we plan to rent out to help cover the costs of a second mortgage and all the associated costs involved in owning a property.
Cheapness is oriented towards saving money for the sake of saving without having an end goal in mind whereas living frugally gives you the power to realize life goals however costly.
Frugal living doesn’t come at the expense of others.
Although we choose to live a frugal lifestyle those around us never feel like they’re deprived when visiting or spending time with us.
When it comes to things like dinner plans, social events or family gatherings we always put our best foot forward.
Recently, when hosting a dinner party we fed our guests a feast of delicious food. We were still very much conscious of what we bought opting to create delicious meals around items that were on sale as opposed to full price.
Our goal was having a lovely meal with our closest friends and family and our number one priority was that our guests have good laughs and a full belly!
Being frugal is about being creative and conscious of how you spend your money while being cheap is about prioritizing the amount of money you can save even if that means disregarding the needs of others.
Frugal living isn’t about not spending money.
Surprisingly, we spend quite a bit of money on things we deem important and necessary.
We don’t scrimp on things like dental or healthcare, we eat good quality food and make sure to make purchases that we know will be beneficial to our lifestyle.
Frugal living isn’t about saving every penny – it’s about making informed, conscious decisions about what you choose to spend your money on.
As an example, both Margs and I have very sensitive skin and as a result we opt to buy costly laundry detergent that keeps our skin rash and itch free. Sure, there are far cheaper options out there but I would never opt to save a few dollars and put myself or Margs at risk for skin reactions.
Frugal living is about value and not cost.
Frugal living means spending money wisely.
Recently, Mer and I decided that it was time to replace our winter boots since both our pairs were really on their last legs.
We live in an extremely cold northern climate and during the winter months appropriate footwear is essential. We could have spent 50$ on boots and called it a day but we made an investment in better quality boots that are conducive to holding up to our harsh Canadian winters.
We ended up spending nearly 300$ (on sale!) combined but we’re confident that these boots will last us for quite a few years and most importantly keep our feet warm and dry for many winters to come.
We try to use the same philosophy of value over cost when we’re purchasing food, clothing and furniture. We’re not in an income bracket that allows us to necessarily buy the best quality all of the time but we do make conscious decisions to purchase things of mid-range quality or better (if we can swing it) at a higher cost to gain product longevity.
Replacing things is so no fun!
Frugal living isn’t about obsessing about saving money.
As shocking as it might sound, Mer and I really don’t obsess about our bank accounts.
Sure, we check in from time to time to make sure everything is as it should be but we rarely have a look to scrutinize where our money goes.
We’ve sort of automated our frugal lifestyle and the routine of not spending is just so ingrained in us that we rarely need to check in to see how much we’ve spent.
We have a rough budget for groceries and weekly expenditures and we simply stick to our budget as best we can. Sure, there are weeks that we go over. For example, our local grocer was having a sale on organic chickens a couple weeks back so I completely blew our weekly grocery budget and stocked our freezer full of chickens to make delicious meals in the months to come.
Frugal living isn’t about obsessing about money. It’s more a lifestyle choice that allows you not to focus on money at all! By living on a budget we end up saving money (albeit at different increments each month) which is is the consequence of choosing to spend our money wisely.
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I want to hear from you!
What are YOUR thoughts? Are being frugal and cheap the same?